so offered to help a friend move, i sent him a message about a week or two ago , "you know my day's off. let me know if you need any help".. now he has a moving van coming Sunday morning(not my day off) and he want's me to take time off from my job . to help him.. jeez, who's in the wrong here? he's helped me countless times moving and now he has put me in a spot.ahh who's in the wrong here?there really is enough stress in my life during the work week.. this is just added stress for no reason. #nonsense